A cancer diagnosis can be overwhelming. Each type of cancer presents unique stresses for the person diagnosed and his or her family members. Some of these stresses affect most people, regardless of the type of cancer involved. Stresses can affect the mind, body, job, finances, spirit and relationships. They make up the human side of cancer. It helps to learn about the common stages involved in coping with cancer. Understanding what may happen to the person diagnosed during these times will help with choices and adjustments in living with cancer. As you read through these, you'll see that your thought process is very normal. We can help you through these stages.
 Common Stages (these may overlap):
First Learning You Have Cancer
- Feelings of fear and shock
- Asking "why me?"
- Overwhelmed by new information
- Concern about "the unknown"
- Making initial decisions about treatment
Surviving and Thriving
- Returning to work and normal routines
- Facing realities of life - everyday issues
- Feelings of relief, joy and being "normal"
- Feelings of depression, sadness
- Managing finances
Making Decisions About Treatment
- Living with side effects
- Changing daily routines
- Working with many healthcare providers
- Feelings of loss, uncertainty
- Concern about "am I doing the right thing?"
When Cancer Recurs
- Feelings of anger, regret, loss and grief
- Changing priorities
- Establishing new goals
- Finding hope and strength
- Living one day at a time
When Treatment No Longer Will Prolong Life
- Focusing on quality of life, comfort
- Reviewing life
- Connecting with family and friends
- Addressing unfinished business
- Feelings of loss, saying goodbyes, "mending fences"
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